Heather was 38, and had had a series of extreme stressors over a period of several years. She was a giver at heart, always looking for ways to help — always trying to make the lives of people she knew easier or more fun.
But then her husband left her. It was the same old, tired story — an affair with her closest and dearest friend. But still … she was left with two enormous losses, and a crippling sense of betrayal about both of them.
She tried to function for the sake her of two children, Katie and Noah. One foot in front of the other. One day at a time.
Another Devastating Crisis
Three years later, Noah was hit by a school bus and rushed to the hospital. He had a
concussion and his pelvis and femur were broken in so many places they gave her minimal hope he’d walk again. Weeks in the hospital, then months of rehab. Asking neighbors and family members to pick her daughter up at school, get her to piano lessons, grab dinner.
She was exhausted. And Noah was beginning to walk with a walker and just starting back to school when she got a phone call from her mother.
Another Overwhelming Tragedy
Her dad had died when she was 25 and her mom lived alone. Mom just found out she had an aggressive form of breast cancer. She’d been told to expect a year minimum of treatment then re-evaluation. But when her mom got so tired she couldn’t drive back and forth to chemo, there was nothing to do but have her mom stay with her. She’d probably be there through radiation, too. Heather asked her mom’s neighbors to look in on her house.
So a household of three greatly stressed people became a household of four extremely stressed people. Heather just held her chin up and set out to get through this, too. The idea of losing her mom when she was so young was terrifying.
She cooked, cleaned, ran the kids around. Made dinner. Went to work. Drove her mom to chemo. Did everything.
Stress Takes Down the Best People
Finally, 6 months later, her mom had to be admitted to the hospital. Her next door neighbor
offered to take care of Katie and Noah for a few days. Thank goodness. But then … Heather didn’t get out of bed or out of her pj’s for three days … and she felt less and less like getting out of bed after that. She went through the motions of getting her kids to school and back home again … and feeding them when they were hungry. But she was numb. She was barely functioning.
Finally, darkness wrapped around her like a cold box, and she felt hollow. Numb. Adrift.
Someone from the church came to see her. When they saw how she looked, they could see she’d been through too much for too long. They went to work to take over the care of her mom, and took her to the hospital. Heather was admitted with severe Major Depressive Disorder.
Heather’s a giving, kind, and generous person. But chronic and repeating stress can take down the best people, and Heather was no exception. It brought her to her knees.
How Stress Brings Someone Like Heather to Her Knees
We’ve talked and talked about what stress does to your brain, and how it contributes to depression.
But let’s talk about why that happens.
Thanks to recent studies sponsored by Brain and Behavior Research Foundation, we’ve learned some things lately.
And I’m excited to share them with you.
It all makes so much sense when you get a peek inside the brain to see what happens.
MIcroglia Unwittingly Launch a Destructive Attack
There are immune cells in the brain, called microglia, that are responsible for defending against infection, among other things. One of the other things they do is help build and change the construction of neural connections in the brain.
Huge. And hugely important.
In this study, the research team, led by Ronald S. Duman, periodically caused laboratory mice to undergo stress-inducing conditions over a period of weeks. Then they evaluated the effects of this chronic stress on their brains.
It’s not surprising that the mice displayed symptoms of depression and anxiety. The team demonstrated that the neurons in the prefrontal cortex — which control your abilities to make decisions and function socially — react to the stressors.
Specifically, these brain cells signal the microglia to begin “remodeling” pyramidal neuronal circuits … which basically WEAKENS them. The outcome is that the synaptic connections between the neurons in the prefrontal cortex begin to break down. And too many of them are lost.
Sounds like Heather. Broken down. Lost.
Maybe that sounds like you.
How to Stop the Damage?
Then the team carried it another step.
When they blocked the neurons from signaling the
microglia, the chronic stress the mice were subjected to did not affect their synapses in their prefrontal cortex so they did not become depressed.
The research team concluded that finding a way to block the neurons from signaling the microglia could be a way to treat anxiety and depression.
(It seems to me this could be a fantastic way to prevent anxiety and depression in those subjected to long term chronic stress, such as first responders, those with chronic illnesses, and more.)
You can imagine that if you undergo extreme stress over an extended period of time, that more and more of these connections will be lost due to microglia activity. And depression and its accompanying anxiety become more and more severe.
So what can be done about this deconstruction… these massive losses of synapses?
Restoration through an Extraordinary Medicine
Enter IV ketamine treatment, which has been shown to rapidly rebuild and proliferate these synapse connections that have been broken down by depression and anxiety … which are caused by stress and which create more stress of their own.
Remember that tiny doses of ketamine, administered properly, turns on mRNA to switch on
DNA which turbo charges the brain-derived-neurotrophic-factors (BDNF) so the synapses grow, branch out, and proliferate creating a dense forestation of neuron connections.
And when all these neurons in the prefrontal cortex are tied together with a dense network of synapses, you come alive. Joy returns. Creativity blooms. Initiative and motivation billow.
This is what we can do about those lost synaptic connections.
Innovative Psychiatry Offers Expertly Administered Ketamine Infusions
We know that stress takes down the best people. You probably know someone like Heather who tries to help everyone, but eventually she’s the one who breaks down and needs help.
At Innovative Psychiatry, we see extraordinary, positive outcomes in treatment-resistant depression and bipolar depression, as well as in PTSD, OCD, social anxiety and suicidal thinking. That means that very ill people can get really, truly better. As in happy, upbeat, full of energy, initiative, and hope for the future.
You can feel like yourself again. With the energy to embrace each day, the hope to look forward to the future. You can enjoy an afternoon breeze, a beautiful ocean view, or the fragrance of a summer rose.
When was the last time that happened?
If you suffer from depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, PTSD, OCD, social anxiety or suicidal thoughts, and medications haven’t helped, call us. We can help you leave psychiatric disorders behind, and live a fulfilling life.
Live as the best you you can be.
To the emerging of your very best self,

Lori Calabrese, M.D.


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involved. When that happened, the revolutionary became the norm.
psychologists … it’s astonishing to realize the scope of interest and exploration there is in perfecting this most remarkable treatment to help you get better.
people wracked with 

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antidepressants that haven’t helped, he’s likely a candidate for IV ketamine treatment.

So maybe you’ve heard of Blue Monday…?

creativity…and you feel better.
with anticipation to see if research this year will reveal even more.
elation when interviewed that such a thing has happened in their lifetime.
traditional antidepressants, and without any of the weight gain, sexual dysfunction, fatigue, or GI side effects they can cause.


the first time that elevations of this microglial marker have been identified in severely depressed patients who were alive and able to talk about the severity and the torment of their suicidal thoughts. And this inflammatory marker is specifically a marker for suicidal thinking in depression — not for depression itself.
inflammation may soon be a viable part of an overall treatment plan.
The Beauty of a Fresh Young Mind
preschooler you knew her to be.
proceeds to action. On the other hand, suicide in children is typically spontaneous, rather than planned. Like a child overwhelmed from school might jump in front of traffic, and it’s labeled an accident. Or a frustrated third grader “falls” from an apartment window after wrestling with his brother. Again, it looks like an accident. Or a 5 year-old jumps in a pool…then inhales… on purpose. Again, an accident.
morning after morning, she wakes up as usual. And each time she’s disappointed, because life is so full of pain for her. She can’t remember when she wasn’t drowning in sorrow, emptiness, isolation.
hope or self-respect he might have had. If he has another behavior disorder, he likely doesn’t understand what drives him, and just may feel baffled by the punishment, and more hopeless.
Your research shows you there are skeptics, professors and scientists who say there are reasons to wait and see if this remarkable treatment is safe, but you learn of those who have been almost miraculously released from their symptoms, you want to try it.
great help to those who need them, and receive them under medically-supervised conditions, ketamine is abused by people “just looking for a good time.”
in minutes.
own lives became bright and hopeful. Psychiatry has never seen a drug intervention so powerful and fast acting. While most anti-depressants take weeks to work and offer modest improvement, ketamine offers dramatic improvement in less than a day.”
ketamine is providing for recovery and remission of psychiatric mood disorders in children and adolescents, as well as adults. We operate with integrity and with excellence, and use only the 
Another way IV Ketamine SMASHES depression
who are depressed. In addition, their brain cell signaling is stifled, which may be the cause of that numbness depressed people experience.
office respond, and many of those achieve complete remission of their symptoms. But, I’ve said before that it isn’t for everyone. If it’s not for you, we have other treatments like 
Can You See It?


reactions to emotional pain are very high.
I could use some of that. We hear that all the time. Relief, relaxation and relishing your life can sound so far away … but it doesn’t have to be. As word gets out about
